Then Peter approaching asked him, "Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often must I forgive him? As many as seven times?" Jesus answered, "I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven times. That is why the kingdom of heaven may be likened to a king who decided to settle accounts with his servants. When he began the accounting, a debtor was brought before him who owed him a huge amount. Since he had no way of paying it back, his master ordered him to be sold, along with his wife, his children, and all his property, in payment of the debt. At that, the servant fell down, did him homage, and said, 'Be patient with me, and I will pay you back in full.' Moved with compassion the master of that servant let him go and forgave him the loan…
So will my heavenly Father do to you, unless each of you forgives his brother from his heart." (Mt 18:21-35)
Forgiveness should become a habit for the follower of Jesus. Any action done seven times seventy times will become a habit. When this is done for everyone who sins against then naturally it becomes a habit and more than a habit. It would be almost like breathing. That is why it is said that forgiveness is the only distinguishing mark of the follower of Jesus.
But what we experience in the world is just the opposite. Forgiveness is the rare practice among men. They are ready to receive forgiveness from the others but by themselves they seldom forgive others. Even a minimum amount of loan (equal to one day’s wage) the man is not willing to forgive. Spirit of forgiveness seem to be rarest quality of man.
God makes use of the same measure in forgiving men of their sins. God’s forgiveness depends on man’s readiness and forgiveness of one another. Begging, pleading, and being patient do not gain forgiveness. Forgiving is the only way to receive forgiveness.